Hair

The saga of my hair started before my stroke and continues to this day, but it was definitely very bad for a while.  I had just previously started to grow out the natural color of my hair: salt and pepper. My hair was not long, but just about shoulder length.  I also had a son who was graduating in June 2019. I had hoped to have a decent hair cut of my natural hair by then.

This is after the stitches had been removed and some hair had started to grow back!

My hair goals were overtaken by the surgeon who decided to shave the back of my head.  I understood his reasoning and can’t be upset with him for that, but it caused me some trouble.  As soon as they let me wash my hair I had it cut into a pixie cut. The back of my head was shaved and thankfully this was stylish.  My problem was that after my surgery I could not walk, there was even talk of me getting a walker. I felt like I had aged about 30 years, could not walk, and had short grey hair.  My new goal was to not look so old for my son’s graduation.

Unfortunately, I cut and colored my hair a couple of times before that event when I probably should have just had it done.  There is no guarantee that I could have communicated clearly what I wanted and I could have ended up with bad hair that I had to pay for.

Eventually I had it cut and started growing it out again to its natural color.  A little over a year later the hair that was shaved is about 3+ inches long.

There is much I can be thankful for.  Our son graduated and I looked decent enough.  My hair is growing out now, which was my original goal.  I can walk unassisted, albeit sometimes unsteadily. I no longer feel like I am so much older than I actually am.