The saga of my hair started before my stroke and continues to this day, but it was definitely very bad for a while. I had just previously started to grow out the natural color of my hair: salt and pepper. My hair was not long, but just about shoulder length. I also had a son who was graduating in June 2019. I had hoped to have a decent hair cut of my natural hair by then.

My hair goals were overtaken by the surgeon who decided to shave the back of my head. I understood his reasoning and can’t be upset with him for that, but it caused me some trouble. As soon as they let me wash my hair I had it cut into a pixie cut. The back of my head was shaved and thankfully this was stylish. My problem was that after my surgery I could not walk, there was even talk of me getting a walker. I felt like I had aged about 30 years, could not walk, and had short grey hair. My new goal was to not look so old for my son’s graduation.
Unfortunately, I cut and colored my hair a couple of times before that event when I probably should have just had it done. There is no guarantee that I could have communicated clearly what I wanted and I could have ended up with bad hair that I had to pay for.
Eventually I had it cut and started growing it out again to its natural color. A little over a year later the hair that was shaved is about 3+ inches long.
There is much I can be thankful for. Our son graduated and I looked decent enough. My hair is growing out now, which was my original goal. I can walk unassisted, albeit sometimes unsteadily. I no longer feel like I am so much older than I actually am.
